You’re getting closer to your big day, and you want to spoil the women who helped you through it—the ladies who hosted your bachelorettes and bridal showers, the ones who were there when you said, “yes,” and the sisters who will be the ones to fluff your train and fix your hair. But how do you find the perfect bridesmaids’ gift for your favorite girls?
Take it from Kim, owner and jeweler extraordinaire at Duke’s Jewelers, the best option will always be jewelry. After all, diamonds are a girl’s best friend—why not give your best friends diamonds? And there are so many different options!
What Kind of Jewelry to Gift Your Bridesmaids
So what types of jewelry will make the best gift for your bridesmaids? “Necklaces, earrings, and bracelets are always a hit—especially pieces they can wear on the wedding day. Studs, pendants, bangles, and charm bracelets are timeless and universally flattering.”
Get your girls something to have when they walk down the aisle with you—and then enjoy forever after!
According to Kim, the best thing to think about when looking for jewelry to gift your bridesmaids is to keep in mind what not to do. “Avoid overly bold or heavy pieces. If it’s uncomfortable, too niche, or doesn’t suit their style, it likely won’t get worn again. Keep it classic and elegant whenever possible.”
We couldn’t agree more!
Kim has seen everything from surprise bridesmaids’ gifts at brunch to the cutest bridesmaid proposals. But that doesn’t compare to bringing them all in to go shopping for their own pieces. “One of our favorites is when brides bring their whole bridal party into the store for a private shopping appointment—it becomes a fun memory in itself!”
Personalizing Every Piece While Staying Cohesive
But how do you know how to personalize your bridesmaids’ jewelry gifts while still keeping it cohesive?
“Choose a unifying design element, like metal type or silhouette, and then personalize from there. Think gold chains with different initials, or matching bracelets with custom charms for each friend.”
Matching charm bracelets with your besties? Yes please! And it will be a sweet reminder of the memories you all shared on your wedding day. It literally doesn’t get better.
“Start with a cohesive foundation—like all gold or all pearls—and personalize from there. Know your girls. The minimalist might love studs, while the statement-maker may prefer a bolder drop earring. Customization is a fun way to make each item personal. Think letter charms, personalized engraving, or birthstone customization.”
Kim has some of her own favorite custom jewelry pieces she’s created as bridesmaids’ gifts: diamond initial necklaces, engraved bar bracelets, charm bracelets and necklaces with tiny hearts, birthstones, or the wedding date, and even friendship rings with mixed metals!
“One bride gave her girls bracelets made from her grandmother’s pearls, redesigned into elegant strands. Another gifted necklaces engraved with the coordinates of where she met each bridesmaid. Those are the kinds of gifts that live in memory forever.”
Adding a Little Color and Shine
Speaking of birthstones—any stone is a great way to tie in your wedding theme or color palette. “Gemstones in your wedding colors are a subtle but stunning way to incorporate color! Pearls for garden weddings, opal for a refined, colorful, and organic vibe, or sapphire for a coastal ceremony—it’s all about those personal details.”
It’s like florals for spring, but even better. And sparklier!
Kim’s favorite kind of jewelry to design and style is anything vintage. “We adore vintage-inspired weddings. Think cocktail rings and earrings, antique-cut stones, or art-deco studs for a look that feels heirloom-worthy.
We say, why not take one of each?
When it comes to trending styles, the kind of jewelry that you gift your bridesmaids, and the kind they’ll love, often matches the current trends in everything else.
“Pearls, yellow gold, and delicate chains are in! Mixed metals are also making a big return—and they’re perfect for creating a modern yet versatile look.”
And that’s what everyone loves these days, whether it’s your dress or the venue—modern yet versatile!
Budgeting for Bridesmaids Jewelry Gifts
But here comes the biggest question: how do you stay on budget? According to Kim, any budget can vary. “This can vary a lot depending on the budget of your wedding, but $50–$500 per person is the typical range, depending on how many bridesmaids you have and how custom the pieces are.”
It really comes down to the sentimental meaning behind each bridesmaid’s gift, whether you spent a fortune or picked something you know they’ll cherish no matter what it cost.
“Sterling silver and gold-filled jewelry pieces are beautiful and very budget-friendly! Consider one intentional piece—like an initial necklace or a personalized bracelet—that feels luxe without the big-ticket price.”
Expert Advice for Choosing the Best Jewelry
Kim has even more tips for finding the perfect bridesmaids’ gifts. “Choose pieces that are versatile. Dainty necklaces, subtle studs, or minimalist bracelets can all go from wedding to weekend. Classic styles and pieces are key here!”
And of course, the most reliable pieces of jewelry. “Stud earrings, slim cuffs, and petite gemstone pendants are always in style. These are gifts that live well beyond the wedding day.”
When you’re shopping for bridesmaids’ jewelry at Duke’s Jewelers, they have all the expertise and advice on how to pick the best option of 80 years and counting. “We’ve been helping brides find the perfect sparkle since 1948. Our team is here to walk you through every step—from design to fabrication—with care and creativity. You won’t find a more personal experience.”
Take this as your sign to make an appointment at Duke’s with your girls! “It’s one of our favorite things to host! Come in, sip something bubbly, and create lasting memories while picking out the perfect gifts.”
Just make sure you invite us too!
If Kim could design the perfect bridesmaid jewelry set right now, she’d go with gold. “We’d pair yellow gold huggie hoops with pearl dangle charms and a dainty bar necklace or bracelet engraved with the bridesmaid’s initials and the wedding date. Elegant, feminine, and full of heart.”
And of course, stunning as ever!
Kim’s number one piece of advice to brides looking for the perfect bridesmaids’ gifts is to pick something that feels personal. A five-carat diamond necklace may be nice, but if it’s not a tribute to the love you share with your girlfriends, then it won’t mean as much as something you put a lot of love into.
“Jewelry is more than an accessory, it’s a thank you, a keepsake, and a reminder of a moment you shared. Choose with love.”
And choosing with love begins right at Duke’s Jewelry!
